30 May 2023

Light every moment of childhood

We know that raising children can be a challenge. The #Light Every Moment of Childhood# campaign equips caregivers with proven tools to nurture parent-children relationships based on respect, empathy, communication, trust and role-modelling. Read on for practical tips tailored to three age ranges: 0-6, 7-11, and 12-17 years, and dive into an art…, Age 0-6 Positive Parenting Guidance, Core information, 1. Crying is the primary way for infants and toddlers who have not yet mastered language skills to express their feelings and needs. 2. Children explore the world, learn and grow through experimentation with 'annoying' repetitive behaviors. Please understand their curiosity and this special way of learning and provide patience and guidance. 3.…, Scenario and behaviour guidance, Scene one: A five-month-old baby often cries, and the parents don’t know why. They think that the child is disobedient, and resort to verbally reprimanding them, or even losing patience and beating or scolding them. Core information: 1. Crying is a way for infants who have not mastered language skills to express their feelings and needs. 2.…, Age 7-11 Positive Parenting Guidance, Core information, 1. Create and provide opportunities for children to participate in family and social life that are appropriate to their evolving physical and mental abilities. Participation and experience are important ways to learn and grow. 2. Children are not copies of their parents. Allow them to grow at their own pace and in their own way to become the best…, Scenario and behaviour guidance, Scene one: A 7-year-old can’t finish their homework before 11pm each day, and they are criticized for being too inefficient. The father tries to supervise and coach the child, but the child takes a long time to understand a homework question. The father gets angry and scolds the child, telling the child to write the answer to the question 100…, Age 12-17 Positive Parenting Guidance, Core information, 1. Understand that behind our children's pushing away from us is their willingness and courage to try to grow. Give them enough freedom and space, while remaining caring and supportive. 2. Adolescents may experience more mood swings in adolescence than younger children. 3. Distinguish between requests and commands. Making requests with specific…, Scenario and behaviour guidance, Scene one: When a 13-year-old gets home from school, they go into their room and close the door. They want to avoid their parents hearing their conversations. They say they have nothing to say to their parents, which makes them worry and feel lost. Core information: 1. Understand that children pushing us away is them using their will and courage,…, Let’s hear from parents about their experiences, Meeting children at their level Learning to listen ‘We cannot solve problems by spanking our children’
08 December 2022

Light every moment of childhood

Being a caregiver or a teacher isn't easy. But the good news is that there are skills we can learn to improve our relationship with children and improve how we raise them. Positive parenting and positive disciplining develop a relationship of respect, trust, empathy and communication between caregivers and children, as well as between teachers and…, Positive Disciplining At School, FACT SHEET, What is the situation now? Global:   Globally, it is estimated that 246 million children and adolescents experience some form of violence in and around school every year, 19 one in three children experience bullying, and a similar proportion are affected by physical violence 3 . Half of students aged 13–15, about 150 million, report experiencing…, For teachers, What can teachers do to create a safe classroom environment?  1 2 Build relationships of trust, express your concern for students when they are showing signs of worry or unhappiness, listen, and ask questions instead of making direct judgements. Share life stories and feelings with students in an appropriate manner. Be mindful of your own and your…, For School principals (school leaders), How can schools create a positive and safe atmosphere? 1 2 3 School management: Implement the law and put in place targeted mechanisms for the prevention and control of student bullying, sexual assault, and harassment, as well as appropriate measures to tackle violence and harassment against students, so that they feel protected at school.…, For parents, How can schools engage parents in preventing school violence? 1 2 Schools should provide anti-school bullying training for parents through parent-teacher meetings and parent chatgroups  for them to understand bullying and anti-bullying, parents’ responsibilities as well as the school's anti-bullying protocols, the reporting procedures and…, Navigating the online world safely, FACT SHEET, It is estimated that globally, one in three Internet users in the world today is below the age of 18. 1  More than 175,000 children go online for the first time every day, the equivalent of a new young netizen every half second. 2  They absorb knowledge and information, build friendships and develop social skills, foster creativity and…, How to solve the issue: a scenario-based Q&A, 1. What is cyberbullying and how can I help my child prevent it?  Cyberbullying is bullying with the use of digital technologies. It is repeated behaviour, aimed at scaring, angering, or shaming those who are targeted. Examples include spreading lies about or posting embarrassing photos of someone on social media; sending hurtful messages or…, Positive parenting at home, FACT SHEET, 1. What is violent discipline? Violent discipline is a form of violence against children, that includes physical punishment (for example, shaking, hitting or slapping a child) or psychological aggression (for example, shouting, yelling or screaming at a child, or calling a child offensive names, or otherwise verbally abusing a child). 1 2. What is…, How to solve the issue: a scenario-based Q&A, 1. What is violent discipline? Violent discipline is a form of violence against children, that includes physical punishment (for example, shaking, hitting or slapping a child) or psychological aggression (for example, shouting, yelling or screaming at a child, or calling a child offensive names, or otherwise verbally abusing a child). 1  Many…